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June 10, 1891
Wood River Times
Hailey, Blaine County, Alturas County, Idaho
What is this article about?
Two young women debate woman's sweetest hour: one favors delaying response to a marriage proposal to savor the suitor's anxiety, while the other prefers an immediate, sincere 'yes' for honest joy.
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SHOULD A GIRL HESITATE?
Diverging Opinions of Two Maidens as to What is Woman's Sweetest Hour.
Exchange.
A young girl, attractive though not pretty, bright and witty, well-read and well-bred, whom I love dearly, asked me the other day what I thought was woman's sweetest hour. I have since then discovered her reason for asking the question. She anticipated my answer with the preface that she thought it was when, having brought the man of her choice to the point of proposing, she keeps him waiting a few moments for her answer, regarding the nature of which she has given no inkling so strong as to make it certain that it will be "yes."
I am also a young girl, three years her senior. I have not yet experienced that "sweet hour"-not, at least, from a welcome source. Still
I can well understand that to see and feel the anxiety of one's lover, and to know that it is all caused by love for you, should constitute unbounded happiness.
Yet my friend's idea strikes me as somewhat insincere and a trifle cruel. Were I ever called upon to answer the most important question of life, propounded by the man of my heart, I would find keener joy in unhesitatingly saying "yes" than to feign a doubtfulness I did not feel.
A little beating about the bush at the outset is perhaps proper enough, but when you have assured yourself that you are dealing with an honest man that loves you I think that all parrying and diplomacy had better be supplanted by frankness and sincerity.
I think the honorable wooer entitled to as much information as he has imparted to his sweetheart.
Diverging Opinions of Two Maidens as to What is Woman's Sweetest Hour.
Exchange.
A young girl, attractive though not pretty, bright and witty, well-read and well-bred, whom I love dearly, asked me the other day what I thought was woman's sweetest hour. I have since then discovered her reason for asking the question. She anticipated my answer with the preface that she thought it was when, having brought the man of her choice to the point of proposing, she keeps him waiting a few moments for her answer, regarding the nature of which she has given no inkling so strong as to make it certain that it will be "yes."
I am also a young girl, three years her senior. I have not yet experienced that "sweet hour"-not, at least, from a welcome source. Still
I can well understand that to see and feel the anxiety of one's lover, and to know that it is all caused by love for you, should constitute unbounded happiness.
Yet my friend's idea strikes me as somewhat insincere and a trifle cruel. Were I ever called upon to answer the most important question of life, propounded by the man of my heart, I would find keener joy in unhesitatingly saying "yes" than to feign a doubtfulness I did not feel.
A little beating about the bush at the outset is perhaps proper enough, but when you have assured yourself that you are dealing with an honest man that loves you I think that all parrying and diplomacy had better be supplanted by frankness and sincerity.
I think the honorable wooer entitled to as much information as he has imparted to his sweetheart.
What sub-type of article is it?
Romance
Family Drama
What themes does it cover?
Love
Social Manners
What keywords are associated?
Marriage Proposal
Courtship Etiquette
Women's Opinions
Romantic Hesitation
Sincerity In Love
What entities or persons were involved?
Young Girl
Her Friend
Story Details
Key Persons
Young Girl
Her Friend
Story Details
A young girl believes woman's sweetest hour is delaying her response to a proposal to heighten the suitor's anxiety. Her friend, three years older, prefers an immediate 'yes' for sincerity, viewing delay as insincere and cruel, advocating frankness once love is assured.