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Letter to Editor July 12, 1928

The Bismarck Tribune

Bismarck, Mandan, Burleigh County, Morton County, North Dakota

What is this article about?

A mother writes to her child about visiting cousins Grace and Mabel, over 40 and unmarried, whose lives are empty due to lack of effort and parental expectations against work. She contrasts this with the younger generation's curiosity and achievement potential, suggesting fewer such tragic figures in the future.

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I was delighted to get your last letter, even though I have been slow about answering it.
You see, I have been having company. Cousins Grace and Mabel have been here since last Friday, and I have been very busy entertaining them. As you know, this is rather difficult.
Whenever I am with them very long, I always am glad that you are as you are, even if you worry me to death at times. For you may find yourself some day, and if you don't you at least will have made an effort to do so.
Both Grace and Mabel are over 40 now, and neither has ever had any great happiness or achieved anything that required any effort. They did not marry, though they had excellent opportunities in their youth; they never wanted to work, nor never seemed to have any motivation in their lives.
They belong to the generation that did not work unless it had to. Their parents would have considered it a reflection upon their standing, had their daughters wanted to work.
I remember they always were held up to the rest of the family as such ideal girls--they always did just what their parents told them to. But today they are tragic women.
Their lives are absolutely empty, in spite of good incomes, a comfortable home, and no pressing worries. They seem to me to have missed everything important in life, and not to know what they missed.
Now that their parents are dead they live in that big house in Centerville, and were quite shocked when I suggested that they move into a new, modern apartment. They would consider that sacrilegious, even though they have great trouble keeping help, and that old place is inconvenient and hard to keep up.
Grace would like to adopt a child but Mabel thinks that would be more than they could tackle between them. So they just continue to live on, in the least eventful fashion, making as much effort over buying a new coat or a new range as the average woman would to bringing up a family.
I think in the future there will be fewer such tragic figures among middle-aged women, because the young people today have more curiosity and courage, and more of a sense of the importance of achievement.
They sent their love to you, and were much interested in your life in the city. And encouragement from you doubtless would bring them for a visit. I think it would be kind of you to invite them to your home some day. A little life would do them good.
I hope you continue to have a happy summer.
MOM.
NEXT: "That's out," says Marye.
(Copyright, 1928, NEA Service, Inc.)

What sub-type of article is it?

Reflective Social Critique

What themes does it cover?

Feminism Social Issues

What keywords are associated?

Women Achievement Generational Differences Empty Lives Social Roles Family Expectations Middle Aged Women

What entities or persons were involved?

Mom.

Letter to Editor Details

Author

Mom.

Main Argument

the mother's cousins grace and mabel lead empty, unfulfilled lives due to their generation's aversion to work and achievement for women, contrasting with the younger generation's greater curiosity, courage, and sense of accomplishment, which will reduce such tragedies in the future.

Notable Details

Cousins Over 40, Unmarried Despite Opportunities Live In Big House In Centerville Grace Wants To Adopt A Child But Mabel Opposes Previous Generation Viewed Women's Work As Reflection On Family Standing

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